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		<title>By: Growth As An Opiate, Part 3: The Hard Work Of Happiness &#171; DevInContext</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-104</link>
		<dc:creator>Growth As An Opiate, Part 3: The Hard Work Of Happiness &#171; DevInContext</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Apr 2010 18:40:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Last time, we discussed the argument that some personal growth techniques put people at risk of being, basically, too happy.  Practices like meditation and yoga, in this view, generate &quot;artificial happiness&quot; that can blind people to genuine problems in their lives or with their society. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Last time, we discussed the argument that some personal growth techniques put people at risk of being, basically, too happy.  Practices like meditation and yoga, in this view, generate &#8220;artificial happiness&#8221; that can blind people to genuine problems in their lives or with their society. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-102</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 18:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Megan -- It sounds like, when you&#039;re feeling okay with yourself, things seem to happen for you with less effort -- I can definitely relate to that.

I&#039;ve definitely been thinking about ways to get more exposure for this site.  I would like there to be a full-length Development In Context book, because I think this is such an important topic.  One goal of this site is to build the all-important &quot;platform&quot; for the book, because agents and editors these days require me to be famous already before they will take a chance on my title.  Any suggestions for where to send this would be welcome!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Megan &#8212; It sounds like, when you&#8217;re feeling okay with yourself, things seem to happen for you with less effort &#8212; I can definitely relate to that.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve definitely been thinking about ways to get more exposure for this site.  I would like there to be a full-length Development In Context book, because I think this is such an important topic.  One goal of this site is to build the all-important &#8220;platform&#8221; for the book, because agents and editors these days require me to be famous already before they will take a chance on my title.  Any suggestions for where to send this would be welcome!  <img src='http://www.devincontext.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-101</link>
		<dc:creator>Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 18:15:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My personal experience tells me the same thing you concluded: when I&#039;m happy (peaceful, fulfilled), I&#039;m more likely to attract sustaining external circumstances into my life (wealth, love or adoration, good health, etc.). When I&#039;m feeling low, though, I retreat from the world and become rather apathetic. 

Another well-presented article. Have you considered sending this series to a bigger outlet (one that might pay for such phenomenal content)? Just curious --- they&#039;re so intelligent to me, and I think they&#039;d appeal to the mass public.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My personal experience tells me the same thing you concluded: when I&#8217;m happy (peaceful, fulfilled), I&#8217;m more likely to attract sustaining external circumstances into my life (wealth, love or adoration, good health, etc.). When I&#8217;m feeling low, though, I retreat from the world and become rather apathetic. </p>
<p>Another well-presented article. Have you considered sending this series to a bigger outlet (one that might pay for such phenomenal content)? Just curious &#8212; they&#8217;re so intelligent to me, and I think they&#8217;d appeal to the mass public.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-100</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 22:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mandelbrot -- thanks for the appreciation.  Your comment actually seems like a perfect segue into what I&#039;ll talk about in the next post, which is the different ways people tend to think about and practice meditation (and similar techniques).

Some see meditation as a form of cognitive dissonance in the sense in which you seem to use the term -- that is, it&#039;s a way of trying to change your emotional state, or escape from your current experience.  (Mr. Hadkins said something like this in an interview he did as well, I believe.)

To others (notably, the Vipassana tradition), it&#039;s actually a way to become aware of unconscious behaviors and thoughts that are affecting your life in ways that might not be serving you.  Others, of course, don&#039;t agree with either of these.

I think it&#039;ll be an interesting discussion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mandelbrot &#8212; thanks for the appreciation.  Your comment actually seems like a perfect segue into what I&#8217;ll talk about in the next post, which is the different ways people tend to think about and practice meditation (and similar techniques).</p>
<p>Some see meditation as a form of cognitive dissonance in the sense in which you seem to use the term &#8212; that is, it&#8217;s a way of trying to change your emotional state, or escape from your current experience.  (Mr. Hadkins said something like this in an interview he did as well, I believe.)</p>
<p>To others (notably, the Vipassana tradition), it&#8217;s actually a way to become aware of unconscious behaviors and thoughts that are affecting your life in ways that might not be serving you.  Others, of course, don&#8217;t agree with either of these.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;ll be an interesting discussion.</p>
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		<title>By: Mandelbrot</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-99</link>
		<dc:creator>Mandelbrot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 21:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can only speak for myself re: meditation as a form of cognitive dissonance.  I can&#039;t sit with my eyes closed and deny negativity or the reality of my own life or emotion or pain without feeling like a phony.  It&#039;s not real to me.  I wasn&#039;t designed to sit on a pillow and clear my mind.  I love to work and live and create and solve problems.  That is bliss to me.  I couldn&#039;t think of anything more fulfilling or relaxing.  

Cognitive dissonance, as I understand it, is telling yourself the opposite of what your real belief is.  I&#039;d rather be at peace with the fact that disparity is a harsh reality of this world than to pretend that I&#039;m happy about it or pretend it doesn&#039;t exist.  

True happiness is about coming out on the other side of difficult challenge--happiness is the ending, not the beginning point of a life well-lived.

Thank you for your writings here, Chris!  Very thought-provoking stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can only speak for myself re: meditation as a form of cognitive dissonance.  I can&#8217;t sit with my eyes closed and deny negativity or the reality of my own life or emotion or pain without feeling like a phony.  It&#8217;s not real to me.  I wasn&#8217;t designed to sit on a pillow and clear my mind.  I love to work and live and create and solve problems.  That is bliss to me.  I couldn&#8217;t think of anything more fulfilling or relaxing.  </p>
<p>Cognitive dissonance, as I understand it, is telling yourself the opposite of what your real belief is.  I&#8217;d rather be at peace with the fact that disparity is a harsh reality of this world than to pretend that I&#8217;m happy about it or pretend it doesn&#8217;t exist.  </p>
<p>True happiness is about coming out on the other side of difficult challenge&#8211;happiness is the ending, not the beginning point of a life well-lived.</p>
<p>Thank you for your writings here, Chris!  Very thought-provoking stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 19:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mandelbrot:  thanks for your comment.  I don&#039;t think I have a position on whether economic inequality is unavoidable, but if we assume that is, it occurs to me that personal growth has a necessary role even if the Marxist critics are right that inequality is the main cause of unhappiness.

On this view, because there will always be some degree of inequality, techniques such as meditation and other spiritual practices have a necessary role in smoothing out the frustration or anxiety created by it.  It&#039;s an interesting perspective.

I&#039;m curious what you mean when you say that meditation is a form of cognitive dissonance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mandelbrot:  thanks for your comment.  I don&#8217;t think I have a position on whether economic inequality is unavoidable, but if we assume that is, it occurs to me that personal growth has a necessary role even if the Marxist critics are right that inequality is the main cause of unhappiness.</p>
<p>On this view, because there will always be some degree of inequality, techniques such as meditation and other spiritual practices have a necessary role in smoothing out the frustration or anxiety created by it.  It&#8217;s an interesting perspective.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m curious what you mean when you say that meditation is a form of cognitive dissonance.</p>
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		<title>By: Mandelbrot</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-97</link>
		<dc:creator>Mandelbrot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 19:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris,

I think economic disparity (or unfairness) is totally unavoidable and while it is sad to think about, I don&#039;t think there is any action we can take individually or as a society to close that gap.  Capitalism favors those with the best ideas and resources are funneled toward them.  If you&#039;re the creator of the I-pad, then you will get obscene amounts of money.  If you create an app for it, then you will get ridiculous amounts of money, etc.  This is the way new technology has been creating economic unfairness for centuries.  That&#039;s not really anything to get unhappy about, but it should inspire you to think of revolutionary techniques for making the world better.  

Personally, I am not a fan of meditating for myself.  I think it&#039;s a form of cognitive dissonance, and I&#039;m not a fan of that either.  

I&#039;m not saying the world is perfect the way it is, but I do think it&#039;s a world that is pretty good overall as far as the free world goes.  But that&#039;s a whole other can of worms.  (Basically, a mix of capitalism and socialism is the best form of government that we could hope for, and that&#039;s what we&#039;ve got, and I&#039;m not sad about that!)

I&#039;m sounding like one of these &quot;everything is positive and great&quot; types, but I&#039;m not.  Bottom line is, disparity is unavoidable in the current system.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris,</p>
<p>I think economic disparity (or unfairness) is totally unavoidable and while it is sad to think about, I don&#8217;t think there is any action we can take individually or as a society to close that gap.  Capitalism favors those with the best ideas and resources are funneled toward them.  If you&#8217;re the creator of the I-pad, then you will get obscene amounts of money.  If you create an app for it, then you will get ridiculous amounts of money, etc.  This is the way new technology has been creating economic unfairness for centuries.  That&#8217;s not really anything to get unhappy about, but it should inspire you to think of revolutionary techniques for making the world better.  </p>
<p>Personally, I am not a fan of meditating for myself.  I think it&#8217;s a form of cognitive dissonance, and I&#8217;m not a fan of that either.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying the world is perfect the way it is, but I do think it&#8217;s a world that is pretty good overall as far as the free world goes.  But that&#8217;s a whole other can of worms.  (Basically, a mix of capitalism and socialism is the best form of government that we could hope for, and that&#8217;s what we&#8217;ve got, and I&#8217;m not sad about that!)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sounding like one of these &#8220;everything is positive and great&#8221; types, but I&#8217;m not.  Bottom line is, disparity is unavoidable in the current system.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-96</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 20:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Evan -- that&#039;s a good point -- that many critics of personal development, who tend to see themselves as advocates of social change, actually follow timeworn nuggets of conventional wisdom, like the idea that happiness causes laziness or indifference, in arguing their position.  A lot of people, I&#039;ve observed, seem instinctively uncomfortable with the idea of being at peace.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Evan &#8212; that&#8217;s a good point &#8212; that many critics of personal development, who tend to see themselves as advocates of social change, actually follow timeworn nuggets of conventional wisdom, like the idea that happiness causes laziness or indifference, in arguing their position.  A lot of people, I&#8217;ve observed, seem instinctively uncomfortable with the idea of being at peace.</p>
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		<title>By: Evan</title>
		<link>http://www.devincontext.com/2010/04/growth-as-an-opiate-part-2-the-hazards-of-happiness/comment-page-1/#comment-95</link>
		<dc:creator>Evan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 04:55:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Even the positive psychology people dispute these superficial understandings of happiness (and they aren&#039;t exactly social revolutionaries - or even innovative come to that).  

There are lots of studies that show success is not directly related to happiness (the numbers that show the weak link between financial success - after basic needs are met - and happiness are legion).  This is true at both population and individual levels.

I&#039;m sure the critics will be relieved that there anxieties are groundless.  If not I guess there simple minded notions of success and happiness will need to be re-thought.  They will of course be glad to do this (or their experience falsifies their theorising).

Thanks for a great post Chris.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even the positive psychology people dispute these superficial understandings of happiness (and they aren&#8217;t exactly social revolutionaries &#8211; or even innovative come to that).  </p>
<p>There are lots of studies that show success is not directly related to happiness (the numbers that show the weak link between financial success &#8211; after basic needs are met &#8211; and happiness are legion).  This is true at both population and individual levels.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure the critics will be relieved that there anxieties are groundless.  If not I guess there simple minded notions of success and happiness will need to be re-thought.  They will of course be glad to do this (or their experience falsifies their theorising).</p>
<p>Thanks for a great post Chris.</p>
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		<title>By: Personal Growth: The New Opiate Of The Masses? &#171; DevInContext</title>
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		<dc:creator>Personal Growth: The New Opiate Of The Masses? &#171; DevInContext</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 23:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] stop here in the interest of keeping this brief, but there&#039;s definitely more on this issue in the pipeline.  Tagged as: barbara ehrenreich, bright-sided, china, communism, falun gong, jeremy [...]</description>
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